Saturday, July 20, 2013



Wil’s hat reminded me of him today... the one he wore riding his horse across his land in Montana was stained with his sweat from riding and working to keep up a place as big as all outdoors.  An engineer, he was a man who knew how and why things work.  He knew how to design a house and build it. He knew when his barn needed a new roof before it began to leak and spoil the hay.  When Estelle’s garbage disposal began to growl and rumble, he knew how to take the old one out and put a new one in it’s place... with zero percent chance that the pipes and fittings that held it place would ever leak.  

In World War II, the big one that changed the world, Wil made his country safer by serving in the Navy on a mine sweeper.  He didn’t do something so he could brag about it but because it was the right thing to do.  To an engineer timing and good design are everything.  Even in his own death he got the timing right.  On Tuesday morning, July sixteenth, at age ninety-three, he coughed once around seven-thirty in the morning, closed his eyes and went peacefully to a final sleep.  In his very last breath he was still teaching us how to do something with dignity and grace.


11 comments:

Anonymous said...

Love the trees and love the poem.
Helen T.

Anonymous said...

No one else could have described your friend's death more gracefully than you, Jerral. You do magic with words in the same way my mom used to do tatting, making lace by hand, before she went blind. You, like my mom, are a magician of a different art.
Anielle

Rajesh said...

Anielle's words are mine too. I would have loved to know Tom. I am sure he is now with the Master Designer.

Anonymous said...

Great eulogy!
Joe B.

Anonymous said...

I'll never forget visiting Wil and Estelle on the ranch. What an experience it was to bump off road in his truck to check out the fences with his dog barking along behind.
L. Price

Anonymous said...

weathered some important storms....
agape'
JB

Anonymous said...

Oh to go that way!
M.L.R.

Anonymous said...

Hi, Jerral:

Is this Wil Secor? Now that you are spelling it with one "L" I'm thinking it is, not to mention the reference to Estelle. I didn't know him well--he sang in the Masterwork Chorale for several years--so am very interested to hear more about him, the details of his amazing life and his amazing talents (in addition to singing)!

Katie

Anonymous said...

Friends are the extra good favoring in this life. Going to a wake today for dear friend who passed quickly. At 92. her life was one of great experiences in learning, real joy in being with people, kindness to all she met and one helluva dancer. Be seeing you on the other side, Rosemary. My life.
J.M.

Anonymous said...

Wow! God bless his Soul.
Anton

Unknown said...

Beautiful post Jerral, Wil seems like a guy who would fit right in on a tug as an engineer.